Raising Responsible Children

A neat and tidy bedroom…homework all done and school bag packed for the next day, even the school uniform all laid out. Every mother’s dream! While some children may naturally think in a more ordered way whereas for others it may be that the parents have to inculcate the idea of being organized.

Tips for Raising Responsible Children

• Be a role model for your children by giving them examples of responsible behavior in your own words or actions.

• Give your children small chores (corresponding to their age and learning ability) to help boost their confidence, their sense of competence and to give them a chance to show that they are responsible.

• Do not do everything for your children. The worst thing a parent can do is to teach their children that they need not do anything for themselves. Allow them to do things for themselves individually, without being coddled or smothered.

• Help your child to organize schoolwork. They will need to be taught how to manage their time efficiently. Depending on your child’s rate of learning, give them a certain number of hours in the evening that are devoted entirely to homework.

• Get a petdefine. From a goldfish to a dog, pets are an excellent way to teach children responsibility for another risk.

• Always praise your child when they have exhibited responsible behavior. Let them know that you appreciate their choice to act responsibly and to keep up the good work.

• Be patient. It takes a tremendous amount of patience to let your child do something tat you could do much faster. But there will be a remarkable pay off when your child accomplishes the task and feels confident in their ability.

• Remember that children are children. They would rather play than brush their teeth. Be understanding of their limitations and encourage them to do their best.